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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
Let me introduce you to our today's guests.
He's the prince of ballad songs.
- Jo Sung Mo! - Hello.
Hello.
The sweet guy is back this spring. Eric Nam!
Hello. It's nice to meet you.
He's so handsome.
She's still the prettiest comedienne in Korea.
- Kim Ji Min! - Thank you.
We also invited two popular rappers.
Flowsik and Killagramz!
(Flowsik and Killagramz)
Flowsik and Killagramz.
I heard you ran into one of the people here.
- I ran into Yeong Ja on the street. - I see.
- How? - I...
- Where? - I was riding in my car.
- I saw her in a flower shop. - "A flower shop"?
I go to a flower shop often. I like flowers.
When she came out of the shop, I took a photo with her.
- With her? - Yes.
- Did you walk into it by mistake? - No, I didn't.
I went there to buy flowers that we can eat...
- Edible flowers? - I see.
- Edible roses. - She bought edible flowers.
That's right.
There's a flower shop I go to at Seocho-dong.
She eats meat most of the time, but eats edible flowers sometimes.
- That's the photo of them. - That's when I met her.
Just like Sung Mo was very famous as a sweet guy, these days,
- Eric is called a sweet guy. - That's right.
It sounded like "profit" instead of "sweet".
- It sounded like "swing" to me. - A swing guy?
Isn't Eric a sweet guy?
Are you sweet in real life?
I do have a chic side, but mostly...
I said "sweet", not "chic".
- "Sweet"? - "Sweet".
(Sweet? Swing? Or profit?)
(What did Yeong Ja say to Eric?)
- "Sweet"? - "Sweet"?
- "Sweet". - Well, I think...
- Yes. - Do you make a lot of profit?
(She gave up.)
- "Profit"? - Yes.
I haven't made much this year.
(English is too difficult.)
I heard you tried to change your image through your new album.
- I tried to look like a tough guy. - "A tough guy"?
Shall we hear his song?
- Please sing for us. - Please.
That'd be great.
("Honestly" by Eric Nam)
(Was his voice always this sexy?)
(You are fabulous.)
(Well...)
(His sweetness is also hidden in the song.)
(His transformation is good enough to get a compliment.)
(We hope he'll be successful.)
I expected something like my song, "I Swear".
(He should flap his jacket at least.)
I sang the song to change my public image.
- That's right. - I wore a leather jacket.
- Try something tougher than that. - Okay.
(I recommend a leather jacket.)
Since you came on Hello,
tell us about your worries.
I'm hooked on dad jokes these days.
I don't think dad jokes are just for middle aged men.
I think they're very funny.
- I can see that... - You could think that way.
- he's seriously hooked on it. - That's right.
Right.
- How do your friends react? - When I make dad jokes,
people go away from me.
But I want to continue to make dad jokes.
For example, someone says, "I received macarons as a gift."
Then I say, "Macaron alone"?
I make jokes like this.
(Very funny.)
- He made a pun. - Don't cry.
- Isn't it funny? - Gosh.
- Do you know this? - What?
You've always been like this.
Really?
- I have, haven't I? - You were like this before.
(He liked dad jokes when he was a newcomer.)
Today, we have three worries as always. Show us the keywords please.
(The keywords are revealed.)
"My Husband's Weird Desire", "The Indifferent Man", and...
This is a story of a wife who always feels like...
the night is so long and tiring.
Hello. I'm a housewife in my 50s.
I live in Dangjin, South Chungcheong Province.
What was the title?
"My husband's Weird Desire".
- That's perfect for Dong Yeob. - Right.
This is an embarrassing worry at my age,
but I can't get enough sleep because of my husband.
"Gosh. I... I can't hold it back anymore."
"Oh, dear. What's the matter? You're not going to... Not again."
- "You're right." - What's wrong with you?
What's the matter? Why are you blushing?
- My goodness. - His ears turned red.
- His ears are red. - Exactly.
- His ears turned red. - His ears are red.
(Look at him.)
We're all surprised.
(Blushing)
"Gosh. Are you going to do it again?"
"That's right. My body is urging me."
"I can't hold it back anymore."
What my husband wants in the middle of the night is...
What could that be?
(Drinking)
"This drink is the best when my stomach is upset."
My husband can't live without drinks. He drinks all day long.
- He's addicted to drinks. - A drink?
- Not alcoholic drinks? - That's right.
"Honey, have you seen the milk and juice in the fridge?"
I'm sorry. I was mistaken.
"Honey, have you seen..."
(He and his naughty thoughts)
"Honey, have you seen the milk and fruit juice in the fridge?"
"I drank them all."
"Honey, have you seen carp juice and kudzu juice here?"
"I drank them as well."
He's like a hippo.
He drinks up all the drinks in an instant.
The problem is...
(Groaning)
(Thud)
(Flushing)
He makes noises while urinating, flushing,
and drinking some more in the kitchen.
"Come on. Let me just sleep."
- Please help me get enough sleep. - Gosh.
Sung Mo, what kind of drink do you like?
Of course it's plum juice.
(Sung Mo's favorite, plum juice)
Please come out.
(Who is worried about her husband who is addicted to drinks?)
Nice. She slid down very safely.
While she was sliding down safely,
she left a clear trace.
(It looks like a highway.)
Now, please introduce yourself.
Hello. I'm Lee Si Soon from Dangjin, South Chungcheong Province.
I'm in my 50s.
- Welcome. - Hello.
- She looks so friendly. - Indeed.
Are you in your early, mid, or late 50s?
I'm in my late 50s.
Exactly what drink does your husband enjoy drinking?
It's not plum juice, is it?
- It's one of his favorite drinks. - Is that true?
Fruit juice, milk, and soy milk...
- He practically likes every drink. - Yes. When I buy them,
he drinks at least 10 packs of drinks at once.
For each kind?
Yes. When I make 3 or 4 2-liter bottles of drinks,
he drinks them all within three days.
Even grain syrup or balloon flower syrup...
- He drinks even grain syrup? - No way.
- You can't drink it. - He drinks that sweet syrup.
Does he make tea with the syrup?
You don't drink grain syrup. You dip food in it.
- Like rice cake. - That's right.
There must be a reason why he came to like drinks.
It's been around 10 years.
He used to drink alcohol every day before coming home.
- 10 years ago? - Yes. But then, he began to...
go to church.
I see.
- Did he quit drinking alcohol? - Yes.
- Ma'am, isn't it better... - It's better than drinking alcohol.
- than drinking alcohol? - Isn't it better?
At first, I also thought it was better for him to drink drinks.
- However, he drinks too much. - He drinks too much.
- Drinks have a lot of sugar. - That's right.
- He should brush his teeth well. - They have a lot of sugar.
I'm also worried it might...
harm his health.
More than I'm worried about that, I can't get enough sleep.
- He walks around late at night. - That's right.
- He needs to excrete. - Of course.
That's right.
While he's doing his business in the bathroom,
it sounds like a cow excreting.
I understand what that means.
(She makes a realistic comparison as she's his wife.)
- All the drinks come out. - Right.
The drinks he drank...
He's unbelievable.
Sometimes,
it sounds like a waterfall.
(It also sounds like a waterfall.)
At the end of the valley is Yongso Fall.
(Did he drink a lot of drinks?)
- It sounds like a cow urinating. - It also sounds like a thunder.
"A thunder"?
The showers with lightning and hail...
have been continuing for four days.
How does it sound like a thunder when he urinates?
Kilogram, go ahead, and ask her about the sound.
Did you call him "Kilogram"?
- He's Killagramz. - Killagramz.
- "Kilogram"? - "Kilogram"?
- How could you say that? - How many kilograms?
Could it be because you're sensitive to sound and a light sleeper?
Our house is similar to a studio apartment.
- It's like a studio. - It has a similar structure.
Since I'm always close to him,
I can hear everything closely.
Have you ever thought of sleeping in a separate bed?
I thought of doing that, but...
You see, my husband and I love each other...
- I see. - very much.
You see, my husband and I love each other...
- I see. - very much.
Of course.
- We understand. - He must be very healthy.
- It's because of love. - I mean,
he drinks a lot of healthy juice.
(Snorting)
- Well, yes. - You endured it because of love.
She might have high expectations since he drinks a lot of...
- healthy drinks. - That's just...
I was just saying that.
(Laughing herself to death)
She's definitely from Chungcheong Province.
- "I was just saying that." - "It's not like that."
It doesn't look like you just said that.
"I wouldn't have expected that."
No. I really didn't mean that.
Come on. You two get along well with each other, right?
I can't say that it's true.
(I can't deny it either.)
She's adorable.
Haven't you ever gotten a good night's sleep?
No, I haven't.
I've never slept for hours in a row.
- She must be tired. - Your husband could move quietly,
so he doesn't wake you up.
He's not considerate of me.
He goes to the bathroom too often.
How many times does he go to the bathroom in one night?
I think he goes to the bathroom every hour.
- Every hour? - Yes.
She said he drinks more drink after urinating.
- That's right. - After he urinates,
does he drink some more before he goes back to sleep?
Yes, he does.
He drinks and pees, and then drinks and pees again.
Drink, pee, repeat.
"Drink, pee, repeat."
We prepared a lot of drinks...
in case he craves drinks during the show.
Right. There's a basket full of drinks next to him.
- Yes. Hello, sir. - Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
(He looks like a politician at a campaign.)
(You thought it was over, right?)
(Did he see someone he knows?)
(It's good to see someone from the same province.)
He's cute.
Are you her husband who loves her very much?
- Yes. - All right.
(It's me.)
Do you like the drinks we prepared for you?
You prepared my favorite drinks.
Do you understand your wife's worry?
Didn't she say that she can't get enough sleep?
- Yes. - She said that.
Who stopped her from sleeping?
We wouldn't know.
- I think... - Yes.
I mean, I have to go to the bathroom after I drink.
After I come back from the bathroom,
I drink some more as I get thirsty.
Then I need to go to the bathroom again.
- Yes. - Since she's sensitive to sound,
she wakes up when you move, so she can't get enough sleep.
I didn't tell her not to sleep.
She should sleep if she's tired.
- How could you... - You shouldn't move around...
so she can get some sleep.
How much drink do you drink a day?
- 4l. - 4l?
2 of 2-liter bottles equals 4l.
It's hard to even drink 2l in 1 day.
How much do you drink at once?
(Measuring)
How many cups do you drink?
If I measure it with a soju glass...
"A soju glass"?
- It's a unit of measurement. - I mean, a beer glass.
- I see. - A beer glass.
He drinks soju in a beer glass.
(Dong Yeob, a drink lover, understands him at once.)
That's why he calls it a soju glass.
(Is something wrong?)
If I measure it with a beer glass...
- He can drink a lot. - I guess he drank a lot before.
I drink the amount of one beer glass at once,
but I drink drinks very often.
- Very often? - I see.
Did you drink soju in a beer glass before?
- In a beer glass. - In a beer glass.
- In a beer glass. - In a glass.
How did you know that?
What did I tell you?
You just said that.
- My goodness. - Sir.
- He just said that. - Dong Yeob was right.
Do you drink drinks instead of alcohol?
Alcohol and drinks are not the same.
Since I crave drinks...
It's like my stomach is urging me to drink drinks,
so I drink drinks as my stomach...
- wants me to. - But...
- Do you hear things? - 10 years ago...
When people quit smoking,
they tend to develop a habit...
like grabbing shrimp chips between their fingers.
- I've never heard it before though. - Have you experienced it?
(She's acting as if she's ashing a cigarette.)
You look so natural.
I saw a box of shrimp chips in her waiting room.
(Ji Min, don't forget to take your shrimp chips.)
I think that might be one of the reasons of your addiction.
You're craving alcohol, but you've already quit drinking,
so you drink a lot of drinks instead of alcohol.
Alcohol is alcohol...
(It's not a withdrawal symptom.)
- That's not why I drink drinks. - I think it's a withdrawal symptom.
Did you start craving drinks after you quit drinking alcohol?
That's right. That's why I drink drinks as my stomach tells me to.
That's funny.
"All right. Since you're asking for drinks, I'll drink it."
Wouldn't it be better for him...
to eat fruits instead?
Fruits.
He doesn't eat fruits unless I make juice with it.
Why don't you eat fruit?
Why do you only drink juice?
- It's better for you... - It's a hassle to chew fruits.
When she feeds me, I barely eat a piece of fruit.
But when she grinds it to make juice,
I can eat the whole box of fruits in a day.
You have to chew food when you have meals.
I chew food when I have meals.
Do you like soup?
- Like seaweed soup. - I have weird preference.
I don't like soup.
That's weird. He drinks a lot of drinks.
Then why doesn't he like soup?
It must be convenient for you. You don't have to make soup for him.
Is it good for you?
That's true.
It was convenient for her.
- Sir, do you... - When he drank alcohol...
She's not finished yet.
People from Chungcheong Province speak slowly.
- I'm sorry. I'm from the US. - Exactly.
He never asked me to make soup for his hangover.
It was a good thing.
There is a good thing about his preference.
- Yes. - Yes.
- She's finished now. - Okay.
- I'm finished now. - Okay.
(Now you can speak.)
- She's finished. - She's finished now.
Whenever you speak,
please tell me when you're finished.
- She's finished. Go ahead now. - Okay.
Do you like drinks because of the cool feeling when you drink it?
That makes sense.
I drink only icy water even in winter.
- You like the cool feeling, right? - He likes cold drinks.
Are there any drinks you don't like?
Of course there are.
- What are they? - What are they?
The drink I hate the most...
What I hate the most is water.
Number one.
What I hate the most is pesticide.
(Pesticide doesn't taste good.)
I don't like pesticide either.
(He made a professional comedienne laugh.)
(He made a foreigner laugh.)
What's that?
(Everyone is laughing.)
(Blinking slowly)
(This isn't on pause.)
What are you talking about?
(She doesn't even budge.)
I would die if I drink it.
Sir, pesticide is not a drink.
- This is crazy. - Is pesticide a drink?
(He's laughing to tears.)
It's liquid. You can drink it.
- Who drinks pesticide? - That's ridiculous.
- You're making us laugh a lot. - Chungcheong Province style jokes.
We prepared a lot of drinks for you.
We were considerate of you. Why don't you drink any of them?
I'm afraid I might need to go to the bathroom.
- You can just go to the bathroom. - Don't worry about that.
It'll be okay as long as we can finish recording the show this year.
You should've told me that earlier.
(You should've told me that earlier.)
You should've told me that earlier.
(Upset)
I guess he wanted to drink it.
- Please drink it. - Go ahead.
- He picked soy milk. - Soy milk.
- He's gulping it down. - My goodness.
- Soy milk. - He's gulping it down.
- My goodness. - Gosh. He drank that up.
That was quick.
- That was really fast. - Sir.
- He drank that up. - That was quick.
(My goodness.)
Sir, how many times...
do you go to the bathroom at night?
I go to the bathroom every half hour or every hour.
Isn't that uncomfortable?
You could go to bed without drinking.
It's uncomfortable to go to the bathroom while sleeping.
It's my habit that I do all day long every single day.
I accept that as part of my life.
"I accept that as part of my life."
"Eat, pee, and repeat."
Shouldn't you try to be quiet...
when you go to the bathroom at night?
- Quietly. - Quietly.
Quietly?
- Do you want me to walk slowly? - Yes.
How can I do that when I really need to go to the bathroom?
It's urgent.
But you wake your wife up.
If you can't get enough sleep, doesn't it affect your work?
- It can affect her daily life. - That's right.
I went to a hospital because I had blurry and sore eyes.
I went to see an eye doctor.
The doctor asked me why I couldn't get enough sleep.
I was told that my eye condition was serious,
so I needed to get a goodnight's sleep.
A good night's sleep is like a cure.
It's important to sleep well when it comes to eye health.
Did you know about it?
I admit that I'm partly responsible.
But she shouldn't put...
all the blame on me.
Like we said earlier,
- you could sleep in separate rooms. - Yes.
That'd solve the problem.
What do you think about that?
That's out of the question.
It's a dead end.
- Why? - He's so funny.
Why would a couple sleep in separate rooms?
It's causing health problems. She has eye problems.
She should sleep. No one is stopping her from sleeping.
- But... - She can't sleep.
Is it absolutely impossible to sleep in separate rooms?
Yes.
I'd rather get divorced.
Why would we sleep in separate rooms?
I'm not okay with that.
You have a point.
She agrees with you on that.
It's just that she can't sleep well.
- That's the only problem, right? - Yes.
But I'm...
nice to my wife.
What exactly do you mean?
I bring the laundry in every time.
When I'm on a delivery and it starts raining,
I call her and tell her to get the laundry in.
You just call her?
Do you bring the laundry in or do you just tell her to do it?
When I'm home, I do it myself.
Do you take out the garbage too?
- What? - Do you take out the garbage?
She never takes out the garbage herself.
She doesn't even know how the garbage truck looks.
(People from Chungcheong Province exaggerate.)
She's probably seen one on the street.
I thought you'd fall for it.
"I thought you'd fall for it."
(Blank)
Is he nice to you?
- He says he's nice to you. - It seems so.
Nice, my foot.
(She sounds unhappy.)
(Grumbling)
- He says he's nice to me, - Are you saying I lied?
but when we run out of drinks,
he complains and becomes grumpy.
Do you reach out to him first?
I...
- prepare more drinks... - You prepare more.
and fill up the fridge.
When he sees that,
he becomes happy like a kid.
(Shy)
She looks so shy.
(Grunting)
It shows that you love each other a lot.
It really seems so.
He loves you a lot and is nice to you, right?
(He loves you a lot and is nice to you, right?)
I love him.
(Smiling)
Her answer surprises us every time.
Why did you fall for him?
(Why did she fall in love with her husband?)
I still don't know.
(They're still getting to know each other.)
What kind of drinks do you make for him?
In the spring,
when new buds sprout,
I pick mulberry leaves, mugwort, water parsley,
plantains, mulberries, plums...
I pick all kinds of berries and leaves.
It's almost like shooting "I Am a Natural Person".
"I Am a Natural Person"?
That sounds tough.
My goodness.
To make drinks for you,
- she searches everywhere... - She shoots "I'm a Natural Person".
for berries and leaves.
We asked them to take pictures of their fridge...
so that we can see how many drinks they have.
- Are they all drinks? - It's full.
(It's full of drinks.)
Is that all syrup?
- That's syrup. - Look at that.
- Syrup. - In addition to syrup...
Even in the door.
Let's have a taste.
(Let's have a taste.)
Let's see how it tastes.
We'll have a taste.
- Is that okay with you? - It won't taste any special.
It's just better than water.
I'm sure it tastes good.
This is pomegranate syrup.
It's pomegranate syrup.
- What's this? - What's this?
- It's persimmon punch. - That's...
It's plum syrup.
- Plums. - No.
- No. - It's plums.
I've had enough of it.
We want to hear it.
Do you want to hear it?
I want to bite you.
(The studio is filled with the scent of plums.)
Then...
- Try it. - Thank you.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
- It tastes... - It tastes good.
almost like the ones you can get at supermarkets.
- It's very well-made. - Really?
It tastes very good.
Persimmon punch too...
You're amazing.
It doesn't taste home-made but store-bought.
(It's from the nature.)
It's true.
That's right.
Do you have a spoonful of this...
- from time to time? - It's good for your throat.
I usually have five spoons.
- Five tablespoons. - It's good for your throat.
Try it.
A spoonful would be enough.
Just a little.
(She wants to have just a little?)
(One)
(Two)
(Three)
(Four)
(Who said "a spoonful"?)
You like it, right?
It tastes really good.
(Yeong Ja fills up her stomach.)
You have great skills.
- It tastes like the ones you buy. - Please take these away.
Sir.
You probably should throw away the leftover syrup.
- Okay. - We put so many spoons in it.
- Is this wild grapes? - Yes.
This too...
Oh, my.
She's from your area.
I work so hard in Seoul.
Are you giving me these as a gift?
Of course. I'm sorry it's so little.
Thank you.
But your wife works too.
She runs a Chinese restaurant...
and works in the kitchen. It must be exhausting.
But...
(If she doesn't want to be widowed...)
If she doesn't want to be widowed,
she should prepare food I want.
(What did he just say?)
Can't you help her when she picks berries and leaves?
I can't seem to find them, but she's so good at it.
I'm no use.
- She's so diligent. - I can't find them.
All leaves and trees look the same to me.
Don't worry about her becoming widowed.
You might become widowed too.
- She should get sleep. - Yes.
No.
Say something.
Are you eating something? Why can't you say anything?
You do feel a bit sorry, don't you?
I do feel a bit sorry.
Your wife needs to be healthy...
to be able to make you drinks.
- Yes. - Then...
(What is he going to say?)
In my opinion, if they just sleep in separate rooms...
(Separate rooms)
(What?)
- Everything would be solved. - Yes.
- She'll be able to sleep. - She can sleep.
Why do you keep saying that?
(Why do you keep saying that?)
Why do you keep saying that?
- Don't upset him. - Don't try to separate them.
- It's not that. - Dong Yeob is...
coming between them.
- I mean... - Why do you keep saying that?
I usually say a couple should sleep together,
but your wife isn't getting enough sleep.
What about having drinks only during the day,
and not during the night?
It's my daily routine.
I wake up every 30 minutes or an hour...
and have a drink.
Do you feel anxious when you don't drink it?
I don't feel anxious. I just like drinks.
You must become tired from it too.
You take a nap during the day, right?
I just lie down for 20 to 30 minutes.
But your wife can't.
She has to prepare drinks for you.
She doesn't do that every day.
She does it only in the spring.
You don't care about her at all.
(He only cares about himself.)
One day, I made juice with a whole watermelon.
And I shared it with my neighbors.
And he got angry that I gave away all the juice...
- He got angry. - when we had other fruits.
He got angry in front of other people?
Yes.
Did it bother you when we had your drinks earlier?
- A little? - Were you okay?
I have more at home.
- You have more? - But...
You can have these back.
(Returned)
Take them back.
I have more at home.
I don't need them.
But you'll get angry...
with your wife again.
It bothered him.
Did you really get angry because she shared the juice with others?
It's my favorite.
It's your favorite.
But you have other drinks.
So you became irritated?
I just became a bit grumpy.
You don't seem to be loved by your neighbors.
- Why? - Look at your neighbors' faces.
They don't seem happy...
when you talk.
They are your neighbors, right?
- Yes. - Look at them.
They're wearing the best clothes they have.
Hello.
Hello, I am Si Soon's friend who lives next door.
- Okay. - A friend who lives next door.
Hello, I am also a friend who lives in her neighborhood.
Hello, I am a friend of 30 years who lives in her town.
They come from different places.
Next door, neighborhood, and town.
They are from the same neighborhood.
Raise your hand if you drank the watermelon juice.
(They raise their hands.)
That's funny.
Raise your hand if you think Si Soon's husband is small-minded.
(They are in agreement.)
(My goodness.)
Let's talk to Si Soon's friends.
I run a mart.
He came to buy soy milk.
He bought five bottles of soy milk...
and took a straw.
I wondered if he wanted to give me one,
but he drank all of them on the spot.
- All five of them? - Yes.
- He drank all five of them. - You run a mart.
Yes. I thought he would give me one,
but he drank all of them.
Why did you think he would give you one?
- I mean... - You run a mart.
I didn't think he would drink all of them.
You didn't think he would drink all five bottles.
One time, we went to the mountain together.
He had to use the restroom.
There is no restroom in the mountain,
but he couldn't urinate outside.
- He had to use the restroom. - Yes.
- He loves the nature. - In a loud voice, he yelled,
"Let's go to the restroom."
He even did that during a church service.
(Soy milk is tasty.)
- What do you think? - I agree that...
he drinks beverages too often.
On the other hand,
my husband doesn't drink any beverages.
- Why are you talking about him? - He doesn't even drink water.
(What is she doing?)
- That came out of nowhere. - I am dissatisfied with that.
Your husband doesn't drink any beverages.
- No, he doesn't. - Really?
(Why are you talking about your husband?)
What doesn't he drink?
He only eats fruits.
He doesn't drink juice...
or enzyme drink.
- Are you jealous of your friend? - A little bit.
(You should try living with him.)
Please send us a worry regarding your husband next week.
All right.
Is there anything else your husband likes?
He likes packaged coffee with creamer and sugar.
- Coffee mix. - Yes.
I made enough for 30 cups,
but he drank it in a day.
One time,
I bought a box of 10 bottles of digestif.
- No way. - When I wanted to drink one,
I couldn't find anything.
I asked my husband,
"Do you know where the digestif is?"
He said he was worried they would go bad.
He drank them when he didn't have an upset stomach.
- He drank digestif. - Yes.
He likes drinking things.
- It has a sweet taste. - Yes.
- It has an interesting taste. - Yes.
Sir, you consumed a lot of caffeine...
and sugar.
I know that.
If you would look here, I have various beverages.
Some beverages are good while other beverages are bad.
It's half and half.
- They help and ruin my health. - It's both good and bad.
It's either one.
(She is out of breath laughing.)
Your body absorbs sugar.
You say you dilute it with water,
but experts will say that it stays inside your body.
I am sure doctors will say so.
However, I don't want to agree with that.
As you can see, I am healthy.
Illnesses may hit you at once.
The effects may have accumulated in your body.
For me,
it's only a matter of going past the age of 100 years.
Once I do that, I will live for 200 years.
- That's how healthy you are. - That makes no sense!
I am confident about my health.
How will you live another 100 years?
It's only a matter of going past the age of 100 years.
Once I do that, I will live for 200 years.
- You jest. - What I mean is...
Sir.
You wouldn't be happy if your son drinks like you.
I would not be able to stop him.
He lives away.
I am worried that...
Si Soon isn't getting enough sleep.
You wouldn't be able to sleep...
if someone comes in and out of the room...
while you are in bed.
You are bound to sleep if you are tired.
What do you want us to do?
(The woman from Chungcheong Province explodes.)
- It's not like... - What do you want us to do?
It's not like I can stop drinking what I like.
Why did you marry him? Who arranged the match?
Is that the conclusion?
Tell us. Who arranged the match?
A friend of mine did.
- Do you still see that friend? - Call her right now.
No, I don't. She stopped calling me due to guilty conscience.
(Laughing)
Dong Yeob.
What do want to ask of your husband?
I don't know if I am living with a man...
or a hippo.
Don't drink beverages that contain sugar.
- Drink water. - That's right.
I hope you would cut your beverage intake into half.
That's right.
You aren't sulking, are you?
- I am not sulking. - Okay.
- It looks like you are. - It looks like you are.
(I am not sulking.)
Let's start with Killagramz. Is it a worry or not?
It's preferable to drinking alcohol.
It's not a big worry. I will say it's not a worry.
I think it's a worry...
- because sleep is important. - You think it's a worry.
They say sleep is the greatest medicine.
Please give her that medicine...
by helping her get enough sleep.
- Ji Min has a way with words. - Sleep is the greatest medicine.
I think it will be okay if he drinks healthy beverages.
- You don't think it's a worry. - I don't think it's a worry.
- You don't think it's a worry. - You don't think it's a worry.
I think it's a worry.
It's a worry.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- All right. - Stop.
Please say a few words to your wife.
How do you address her?
My wife? Honey?
Brat?
It's plausible.
Perhaps he acts cute.
- That would be unexpected. - I know.
- I call her "Honey". - Honey.
Oh my goodness. Honey?
Honey, I didn't know...
this was a worry for you.
Even if I am born again, I will live my life with you.
I am sorry, Honey. I will do my best to improve.
I haven't said this to you before. I love you.
Her heart melted.
Tell her the most important thing. What will you do at night?
So that you can sleep well at night,
I will tiptoe to the refrigerator.
- He won't stop drinking beverages. - I will tiptoe to the restroom.
I knew things were going too well.
Consideration is the key.
You may get up to take out beverages...
and go to the restroom, but you should be careful...
- not to wake up your wife. - That's right.
Then Si Soon will know that you care about her.
Please be more careful in that regard.
- Good luck. - How many votes did the worry get?
Please show us the result.
"My Husband's Weird Desire".
(How many votes will the worry get?)
- It really is a weird desire. - Yes.
- 100 votes? - 100 votes?
147? 127?
(147 votes)
It's a story from a teenage girl.
"Don't Find Me!"
Hello.
(She brings up her tone.)
Why are you imitating a woman when you are a woman?
(Shocked)
- My goodness. - It's true.
(Ji Min attacked her with fact.)
- Use your regular voice. - She has a point.
It didn't occur to me before.
Seriously.
Ji Min.
- I will give you a massage. - No, thank you.
- I don't need a massage. - Stay behind after the shoot.
(She transforms into a woman again.)
(She fails.)
I can't do it.
Use your regular voice.
- Read it comfortably. - I am sorry.
Hello, I am a student in 12th grade who is about to wither.
I have seen a lot of people visit the show...
due to their controlling parents.
I think I would be happy if I were in their shoes.
My dad is the most controlling parent.
"I am back from school." "You!"
"Look! Look at the time!"
- She is saying, "Look at the time." - "Look at the time!"
(He is an interpreter.)
"Why didn't you answer my call?"
"If you are going to be that way, throw away your phone!"
"Gosh, I am so annoyed."
Then he makes a commotion.
Just because I didn't answer his call,
he threw everything he got his hands on.
"What are you wearing? It's not ladylike."
"I will rip it off!"
Did he rip her clothes?
- My goodness. - Her dad did that.
My dad doesn't let me do anything.
Does he even love me?
Please let me...
out of this fence.
Ji Min, was your father controlling?
Yes. He was very strict.
Whenever a man called the house,
he brought me and my sisters together...
and interrogated us until he found out who he was.
I understand this girl's father.
He wants to lead her to the right path,
but his methods are a bit excessive.
- Let's say you have a daughter. - If I have a daughter,
- I won't be able to work. - You will be too worried.
- I had the same thought. - Why?
I thought I wouldn't be able to leave her at home.
- Thank goodness I don't have one. - Chan Woo, you have a daughter.
Do you get nervous?
She is doing well.
(He is dry.)
(He is a cool-headed dad.)
- Please come on out. - Please come on out.
- Hello. - Give her a hand.
- My goodness. - Are you okay?
My goodness.
She is surprised by Killagramz.
Eric, you should go.
Thank you.
Since when was he controlling?
Did an event make him that way?
I am the only child.
- I think that's why he is that way. - I suddenly understand him.
I think it started when I was in kindergarten.
I was playing in the playground after I got out of kindergarten.
When he called the kindergarten, he found out that I had left.
When he called home,
- I wasn't there either. - He must have been surprised.
That's when he reported me missing.
Did he report you missing that day? subtitles ripped and synced by riri13
Yes, he did it right away.
I think that's when it started.
You remember vaguely.
One time, I talked to my friend on the phone on my way home...
and didn't answer my dad's call. When I got home,
he suddenly yelled at me.
I asked him, "What's wrong?"
He said, "Why didn't you pick up?" When I checked,
I saw I had 40 or 50 missed calls.
- Really? - Whenever I think about it,
I shudder.
At what time did you come home that day?
About 7:05pm.
- It was past 7pm. - Yes.
I went to an amusement park one day.
I wanted to wear a skirt.
I wore a skirt and told him, "I am going out, Dad."
He suddenly threw the remote and said,
"Don't wear a skirt. Wear pants instead."
When I changed, he ripped the skirt...
before my eyes.
There has to be a reason why your dad is worried.
I bet there was a past event that triggered his paranoia.
He wouldn't mistreat his daughter for no reason.
Have you made him worried before?
- That's right. - I have never come home late...
or worn a short skirt.
Recently, I managed to get his permission...
to go on a 2-day trip to Busan with my 4 friends.
- Did he let you go to Busan? - Yes.
It didn't feel much like a trip.
From the start, he called me every 20 minutes.
- Every 20 minutes? - Yes. "Where are you?"
"What are you doing? Send me a picture."
"Stay there for an hour and go back to the hotel."
It didn't feel like a proper trip.
Let's meet Soo Mi's dad. Where are you?
Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
People only bring extreme worries to this show.
Do you understand Soo Mi's worry?
When you listen to Soo Mi's words only,
I sound like the worst dad.
I wouldn't say that.
I sound like a lunatic.
However, to parents with a daughter,
the world is a scary place.
If I don't know where she is when she comes home late,
- I become worried. - Of course.
Do you understand her if she says it's a worry?
You are a bit excessive.
I understand that...
you become worried when you can't reach her.
She doesn't ignore your calls, but your check up on her too often.
I think you are a bit obsessed.
Everyone should be free.
You become unhappy if you aren't free.
She said you call 40 or 50 times if you can't reach her.
Do you call her that many times because you are worried?
That's right. I would be relieved if she sends me a text.
If I neither receive a call nor a text...
after 20 minutes...
and her whereabouts is unknown,
I become nervous.
Calling her until she picks up puts me at ease.
I call her 30 or 40 times if I must.
The hour wasn't too late.
It wasn't even 10pm.
It was 6 or 7pm.
While Soo Mi goes to school,
she doesn't get good grades.
She doesn't get good grades.
(How are you my dad?)
Why did you tell us that?
- Sir. - We didn't need to know that.
Sir!
This isn't a TV program on studying.
Are you getting back at her?
He is taking revenge.
- Only a few students like studying. - Sir.
She doesn't go to academies after school.
She doesn't do much.
If she tells me...
where she is going,
I say, "Okay. Go ahead." However,
she disappears.
Whether it be 2 hours, 30 minutes, or an hour,
there is a gap between school and home.
Since I work during that time, I can't go to her.
Her mom works as well.
- It's frustrating. - Why do you think she does that?
Her dad grills her on where she is and what she is doing.
He tells her to send him pictures.
Then it wouldn't feel like she is hanging out with her friends.
Perhaps that's why she doesn't call you.
Judging from my friends,
those who had controlling parents become delinquents.
They lie so that they wouldn't have to go home.
Those who are free go home and call their parents...
- on their own. - That's right.
Soo Mi's friend is here.
Do you understand your friend's worry?
Yes, I do. Soo Mi and I were walking around by Han River...
when she received a call. I didn't know who the caller was,
but Soo Mi was irritable.
"It has only been 10 minutes since I got here. Stop calling."
We spent 30 minutes at Han River and went to a karaoke.
She got another call 10 minutes after arrival.
She said she has to go home because her dad called.
I wasn't close to Soo Mi back then,
so I thought she was making an excuse to go home...
- because she doesn't like me. - It's understandable.
It put some distance between us.
She did that 9 out of 10 times.
It never feels like he hung out. It upsets Soo Mi...
because she can't make friends.
She struggles because of that.
Your daughter has almost reached adulthood.
If you continue to be controlling, she will be the only one...
with a dad like you among her peers.
They will say, "It's uncomfortable to hang out with you."
"It feels like we became bad people."
It can distance Soo Mi from her peers.
- It's a big worry for her. - Yes.
It's not like she gets out of school at 9, 10, or 11pm.
She gets out at 6pm at the latest.
She can see her friends at school...
and hang out with them for a short while after school.
Let's say her friends are like,
"I won't befriend you since you go home at 6pm."
"I will befriend someone who goes home after 7pm."
She shouldn't have those kinds of friends.
He has a point.
They are the same.
Actually, I understand how he feels.
- He is like a typical parent. - He is.
You know how he feels, right?
I get that he worries about me,
but he should talk to me nicely.
He gets angry and throws things.
He breaks things. He even broke the TV once.
(He even broke the TV once.)
- He broke chairs. - My goodness.
Even though he doesn't hit me...
- It must be scarier. - That's right.
- It's hard on me psychologically. - Of course.
This happened once when I was in elementary school.
A study material was delivered to the house...
and my dad suggested that we study together.
However, I didn't know anything.
I told my dad, "I don't know this. Please teach me."
- That's how you learn. - Suddenly,
he slammed his fist on the table...
and sighed.
He swore as he explained the concepts to me.
He even brought a mop, slammed it on the floor,
broke it, and threw it.
- He didn't beat you, but... - No.
- A beating would be preferable. - Seriously.
For goodness' sake.
(I am not like that.)
I wanted to cry.
However, my dad doesn't like it when I show my weakness.
- Men hate it when women cry. - Yes.
If I cry, he gets angrier. I couldn't even cry.
Holding back my tears became a habit.
Even though you have emotions bubbling up,
you suppress them.
- She is suppressing them. - When you cry,
your dad goes, "Stop crying. Stop crying."
He throws things as he says, "Stop crying."
- "Stop crying!" - Why do you get so angry?
I have AB blood type.
- I have AB blood type. - I do, too.
I have Sung Mo's blood type.
- I have a temper. - Stop it!
(You are making me more annoyed.)
I know that I have outbursts.
However, she is the same.
- For goodness' sake. - Her temperament...
- is just like her dad's. - They have outbursts together.
Like father, like daughter.
- Seriously. - You shouldn't throw things...
and break things.
As for throwing things, I do that because...
you need to express your anger through an action.
(You need to express your anger through an action.)
(Action?)
Why do you think that?
- You don't have to... - You need an action.
Do you think all fathers need it?
You need an action...
to make it livelier.
(Is he a movie director?)
- There's something to see. - Are you shooting a movie?
Also, when I break things,
I calculate things ahead of time.
I am not crazy enough to break TV.
Why would I break such an expensive thing?
The mop is the cheapest.
(He speaks informally.)
She doesn't even get scared.
She's a strong girl.
And she doesn't bear grudges.
She forgets about it in just 20 minutes.
- Sir. - Yes.
You've been doing it your way.
- Right. I am her parent. - Right.
But in fact, she's been scared of that situation.
Let's meet her mother first.
Your daughter sent us the letter about this.
Do you understand why she did it?
Yes. I can understand her in many ways.
There's one thing I remember.
My mother-in-law lives with us.
One time, I got into a big argument with her on a holiday.
And I ended up saying...
that I was going to divorce my husband.
After that, I was just sitting in a corner,
crying.
Then my daughter brought out a suitcase...
and told me...
that we should use this opportunity...
to move out of the house...
and let her dad live with her grandmother.
When she said that,
I realized how hard...
it must've been for her.
Did you really say that?
(Did she really suggest her mom that they move out?)
Mom said, "Let's just move out."
So we packed.
I was a little excited.
(She was excited.)
I was excited to finally move out.
But when I asked her about it the next day,
she said we weren't going anywhere.
That happened.
Has your husband always been short-tempered?
Actually, we dated...
11 months before we got married.
- Not even a year. - Yes.
So I didn't know his personality too well.
After we got married,
we met with his friends.
And his friends asked me how I came to decide to marry him.
When I asked them why they would say that,
they said it was going to be tough to cope with his personality.
That's what they told me.
We've been married for 20 years now.
Recently, his friends asked if we were still together.
(His friends respect her for putting up with him.)
"Still"?
(I can't put up with him any longer.)
My husband is...
very calm most of the time.
But when he's not happy with something,
- his blood pressure... - Does it shoot up?
Yes. It suddenly...
goes up.
And the most inconvenient time for that to happen...
is when he's driving.
- When he's driving. - Yes.
When there is a heavy traffic,
his level of anger goes from 0 to 100.
When that happens, we have to hold on to the bars on the side.
- It turns into a rollercoaster. - Yes.
- He cuts in and changes the lane. - Right.
(Smiling)
How was he when you got into a fight?
How was he when you just got married?
When we were married for five years, we sometimes got into a fight.
- That's when you get into fights. - Yes.
Until then, I didn't have a religion.
But I started going to church around that time.
When I told him about the church,
he went and suddenly got his head...
- shaved off. - Why?
- My goodness. - Then he changed his ringtone...
to the sound of a wooden gong.
(That was the 2nd thing he did.)
That's childish.
(He became a Buddhist.)
It lasted only for a short while.
No way.
It lasted only for a short while.
But I couldn't understand him.
How could he have done that?
(There's no getting out once you get caught.)
When was another time...
you got really upset?
When I was younger, I felt sad about this.
- My parents both worked. - Right.
They came home around 9 or 10 every day.
My grandmother raised me.
Dad always told me to go home,
but neither Dad nor Mom were home when I got home.
Grandmother can't hang out with you too well. You know?
- Right. - So...
(She suddenly becomes emotional.)
You must've been really lonely.
You understand it now, but thinking about that time makes you sad.
- Right. - You missed them so much.
Right.
They weren't there when you needed them.
Just think about it for one last time and forget it.
It's okay to cry.
- You got through it. - Right.
They always looked for me, but they weren't home.
They always left 20 dollars for me.
But I didn't need money.
I just wanted to hang out with Mom and Dad.
They always told me to come home, but they weren't there.
So I asked them if they really loved me.
I asked them if they have left me to Grandmother.
(She thought her parents had abandoned her.)
But instead of talking to me, Dad just got upset again...
- Did he? - and...
He threw things and broke things.
That made me the saddest.
It seems like your daughter...
didn't get enough love from you.
You controlled her without giving love.
At the time, I used to work day and night.
We can't blame you for having worked hard.
- Of course. - A lot of parents work now.
Of course.
If we thought she couldn't handle it, we wouldn't have done it.
We thought she would understand us...
as time passed and she grew older.
That's why we did what we did.
In my opinion, the biggest problem...
is not your absence.
It's the way you scold her.
You proudly say that you have never hurt her.
But it's ridiculous.
Throwing something, breaking something,
and creating the fearful atmosphere is...
Yes, you never physically hurt her.
But that's much worse for her.
Even if she always gets scared,
as she grew older, she came to...
hide her fear because...
he hates seeing you...
getting satisfaction from seeing her being scared.
That's why despite being really scared,
she tried to look calm.
Throwing things and breaking things...
are really wrong.
I'm not saying this because we are on TV.
You should never ever do that again. Never.
After living long enough...
I am older than your dad.
- Much older. - Much older.
(Nice timing.)
The people with the most power...
to beat the world are those...
who have received a lot of love.
(She becomes emotional.)
I was always lost. I am still lost.
My father has never told me...
about his feelings for me.
If you don't express your love...
Just because you gave life to your child, you think...
you don't have to tell her how much you love her. No.
You have to express your love.
You have to tell her how much you love her.
If the father can't do it,
the mother has to tell her.
Tell her how much her father loves her.
And tell her how much you love her.
Neither of my parents told me.
They never did.
Even when I am 50.
So I became really close to my two sisters.
By loving each other, we try to compensate for the loss.
We do that because we must go on.
You have to love...
and share the love to others.
It doesn't matter what your principles are.
You must give love to your children.
Only then they have...
the power to go out to the world and to live life.
What's the point of earning money?
She doesn't feel your love.
What's the point of her mother loving her?
She doesn't tell her about how much her father loves her.
She can't feel it.
I am telling you this because I know how she feels.
I've been lost for 50 years because of that.
- That's all I want to say. - Yes.
You have to change, sir.
(After a long pause)
Seeing my daughter cry...
makes me want to cry too.
I never knew how she felt until now.
We have never opened up to each other.
Saying anything at this point will sound like an excuse.
It seems like I was really bad.
I don't know what to say.
Right. His heart must be broken.
He's been raising her for 19 years.
And he's realized that she's been in so much pain...
and that it was him who made her life so miserable.
- For a father, - Of course.
- it must be very hard to accept. - Yes.
But still, you must change.
You have so many years to spend together.
So change the way you live.
She reached out to you for the last time, so use this chance...
- to be different. - It's not late yet.
Yes.
Let's begin with Killagramz. Is it a worry or not?
I like the intention,
but the method is wrong.
- So I think it's a worry. - It's a worry.
I also think it's a worry.
The method is very wrong,
and I want him to change. So I will vote it as a worry.
It's a worry.
I also think it's a worry.
If I were in her situation,
I would be so anxious.
Every day, she has to worry...
about whether or not her dad will lose his temper.
That anxiety is causing her to behave in certain ways...
and also making her try to become distant with her dad.
And I think it's a shame.
What do you want to say to your father?
I want you to trust me a little more.
And I hope you will call me just five times a day.
I am turning 20 next year. I am an adult now.
I hope you won't worry about me.
I love you.
Please prepare to vote, everyone.
(We praise her for trying to fix their relationship.)
Please press the button if you identify with her.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Stop. - Stop.
Please say something to your daughter.
Soo Mi. You know that I really love you, right?
You are an adult now,
so if there's something you're not happy with, you can tell me.
I hope we will live happily together.
Let's see how many votes she got. Show us the result.
Yes. What's the last digit?
1. "My Husband's Weird Desire" got 147 votes.
If she gets 151, she will become the winner.
How many votes did she get?
What is it? 141.
Well done.
A lady sent this letter because she wants to understand one man.
Hello. I am a woman in her 20s who is very hurt.
No matter how hard I try to talk to him and act cute,
no matter how hard I try, he's not affected at all.
"What should we eat for dinner?"
"Why don't we eat outside? Are you listening? Dad?"
My dad never talks.
"Do you want jjajangmyeon or jjampong?"
"I'll just order jjampong. Jjampong, please."
Then when the food comes... "Why don't you eat it?"
"I don't like jjampong."
- But she already ordered it. - Then you should've told me.
I have never seen my parents having a sound conversation.
"Honey, last month we spent... Honey."
"Honey."
"You're so frustrating. We should just get a divorce."
I am tired of hearing them fight.
I am sending this letter because I can't put up with it anymore.
Please make my dad speak.
(She asked to make her dad speak.)
This is a Korean thing, isn't it?
My father...
"My".
My father. My father. Or my mother.
My mother and father.
I've always wanted to become a rapper. When I was little...
- But... - Did you just speak with an accent?
"When I was little".
That's Gyeongsang Province accent. "When I was little".
- "When I was little". - So...
My parents weren't happy about me becoming a rapper.
But they let me do what I want to do.
It was possible because we always communicated.
(It was possible because they always talked to each other.)
This lady is frustrated because...
of her father who is blunt and quiet.
- Let's bring her in. - Please come on out.
Eric, can you go escort her?
(Who is the one frustrated about her quiet father?)
You should go, Killagramz.
The mic.
(He's the mannered one.)
- Put your shoes there. - You can just leave them there.
- Be careful. - Be careful.
- He's mannered. - You can leave them on the side.
Hello. I am Kim A Ram from Seoul, and I am 22 years old.
Welcome, A Ram.
(Welcome.)
How quiet is your dad?
When I talk to Dad, I feel like talking to a wall.
How long does it take for him to talk back?
- Days? - Seconds.
After 2 to 3 seconds, he says, "Yes."
- That's all he says. - Yes.
Yes, okay, or fine.
- Does he not talk on a trip? - Is it tough to talk?
Mom, my little sister, and I planned a trip to Japan.
When I asked him, "You're joining us, right?"
He didn't say anything.
So we ended up buying...
only three tickets, and we left.
- You left. - You left.
- By the way... - Did he not go?
He didn't answer until the end,
- so we didn't take him. - Perhaps he had a reason.
What do you think?
Perhaps he wanted to go to the US.
- Right. - He didn't want to go to Japan.
When you asked him if he wanted jjajangmyeon or jjampong,
perhaps he was thinking about kkanpunggi.
You could've made it into a multiple-choice question.
How?
- You can give five choices. - Like a multiple-choice question.
Put kkanpunggi and jjajangmyeon in there and say, "Choose, honey."
(Oh, dear.)
- Honey? - This is why...
habit is a scary thing.
You said your mother was at home.
You said you only stay at home.
- "Choose, honey." - I am sorry.
When I was in fourth grade, I wanted to go somewhere.
Somewhere quite far with my friends.
When I asked him if I could go,
he didn't say anything. As a young girl, I felt so sad,
and I cried my heart out.
I shouted, "Can I go?"
Until the end, he didn't say anything.
He went to the bathroom and closed the door behind him.
But there are a lot of blunt people in Korea.
Can't you understand him?
I thought maybe I could change him by acting sweet.
So when he came home after drinking, I made him honey water.
- Well done. - And I asked him...
if he had anything to say, in a cute way.
Even then he didn't really say anything.
Some people become talkative when they get drunk.
"My darling daughter." Even when he doesn't usually say it.
- He never does that. - He never does it.
He's very consistent.
(How can he do this to his daughter?)
But there are times when you have to talk.
- For example? - You might be in an emergency.
- Right. - "Mom is really ill."
- "What should I do, Dad?" - Right. "There's no tissue."
"Bring me some tissue." You need to say that.
He talks when he has to.
But that offends me even more.
How so?
He only talks to me when he needs me.
"A Ram, bring me water. The remote is over there."
- "Bring me the remote." - He talks when he needs you.
And it sounds like an order.
He doesn't sound friendly. He says it like an order.
How is he with other family members?
I have a little sister, and he doesn't talk to her either.
(That must be very frustrating.)
What worries me is that he won't answer to our questions.
No way.
He's been holding the mic for 30 minutes.
It doesn't go up.
- Perhaps he needs a mic to talk. - Exactly.
Try getting him a mic.
Let's meet her dad. Hello.
- Hello. - He talks well.
- He talks well. - He talks well.
- You will answer well, right? - Yes.
He talks just fine.
Do you understand your family's worry?
You can't say I'm indifferent because I'm quiet. Can you?
Why don't you talk to your family?
There's nothing to say.
- You can give an answer. - But you should give an answer.
If they ask you what you want to eat and if you want to travel with them,
you should give them the answer.
Isn't not talking being indifferent?
When I come home, I have nothing much to say.
Do you feel lazy to talk?
I guess I do.
(She's sad.)
You must work.
You seem to talk well to us.
Do you not talk much outside as well?
People say I talk well.
- It's like that. - Really?
As a father, aren't you curious...
about how your children's day has been?
- I am curious. - Yes?
But I just can't seem to talk at home.
You are curious, but you don't want to ask?
You are curious, but you can't ask the question?
"I am so curious. But I will keep quiet."
By the way, usually fathers really love their daughters.
When your daughter approaches you and acts cute,
don't you feel happy?
It makes me feel happy, but I feel too lazy.
(Oh, Dad...)
Sometimes your daughter could come home late.
And you would be worried about her. When that happens,
don't you call her and ask where she is?
You'd have to talk to her when that happens.
I just call her and tell her to come home.
- You call her. - Yes.
Does he call you?
One time, I was drinking...
- until 2am. - You were late.
I didn't... I mean I was late.
Mom couldn't handle it, so she passed it onto Dad.
That's when he called me and said, "Do you know what time it is?"
"Come home." And he hung up.
- It was 2am. - Yes.
Flowsik, you are not mad at him, are you?
- A little bit. - You have to talk.
How about when you didn't have children?
Did you not talk to your wife when you were dating?
I used to talk well then.
What does he want?
I think...
Did you stop talking after you got married?
Or was it ever since you had children?
After we had children,
I didn't talk whenever I went home.
I heard you yell at her when you need something.
- Only when you need something. - That's what you do.
How can you do that only when you need her?
He stopped talking again.
Let's talk to her mother.
Has he always been like this all along?
Yes. We've been living together for 22 years,
but we have never really talked much.
Not even an hour.
He didn't even propose to me when we got married.
I married him...
because he followed me around.
- He didn't propose. - He followed you around.
(You married him because he followed you around?)
You thought he was proposing because he kept following you?
"Why does he keep following me?"
- He kept following her. - That must've been creepy.
Did he keep following you without saying anything?
Don't people usually call police?
He said he talked a lot when you were dating.
I don't think so.
- I don't think he did. - That was just his opinion.
There must be many problems as a couple.
He once stood surety for his brother.
But he didn't tell me.
- He didn't tell you? - No.
I asked him why he did that.
He stood surety for him...
since he's his brother.
He didn't care about the money.
Do you get his salary...
to your account?
At the time, it wasn't transferred.
He gave me his salary envelop.
One time, he didn't get paid for 7, 8 months.
The company went bankrupt.
We couldn't get it because he didn't tell me,
and they ran away.
- Because he didn't tell you? - No.
Only if he told me at the time,
we would've come up with a plan.
That adds up to 10,000 dollars.
How do you think we made a living?
You should tell those things to your wife.
My boss said...
he'll pay me in the next day or two.
What's the point of telling her?
- Still. - How about surety?
Because money didn't matter between us...
Why didn't you still tell your wife?
- It just happened. - Pardon?
That just happened.
He never has a reason for anything.
(There's no answer since there's no reason.)
When your daughter or your wife asks you a question,
you can just answer them.
Why didn't you talk to them when they went to Japan?
Were you upset about something?
I wasn't upset.
I was busy at work.
I couldn't get time off.
You could've told them you can't go.
I did.
- What? - I did say it.
Wait. Go ahead.
We asked him for three weeks.
- He didn't answer. - He said three weeks later...
- Right. - that he couldn't go.
Didn't you tell them because...
you weren't sure if you could go?
- Right. - Then you should've told them.
You could have told them.
(Is he going silent again?)
He just doesn't want to talk.
- You didn't say it. - He only talks when he wants to.
(Please answer.)
He just doesn't want to talk.
Is that your daughter next to you?
- Hello. - Hello.
I'm sure you feel the same, but what do you think about him?
(Sighing)
Sometimes I think he's not interested in us at all.
I know.
I recently received...
a scholarship.
Even though I was very happy,
all he said was "Really?" He didn't even congratulate me.
I was very disappointed.
He never expresses himself.
- I don't know what's on his mind. - Right.
- But he keeps getting upset. - What?
- Goodness. - Why?
- Your dad gets upset? - Why?
- Why? - You have everything, sir.
- He has everything. - Tell us the details.
Dad wants to watch the sport channel.
Mom and A Ram want to watch drama or entertainment shows.
When we change the channel,
he gets upset and won't talk to us.
One time, we went to a seafood restaurant.
We ordered rice wine and waited for Dad.
The first thing he said was, "Why didn't you order soju?"
He got upset for not ordering soju that he didn't even eat.
(I'm not eating.)
(He's acting like a child.)
I was very disappointed.
We ordered rice wine because he likes it.
You could ask the server...
to change it to soju.
But you were like, "You didn't order soju? How dare you?"
(How dare you not order soju?)
Don't you think that's weird?
That's really weird.
Were you really upset?
- Seriously? - Of course not.
Was it a joke?
It wasn't a joke.
- What? - What was it then?
Don't make us solve a riddle.
Do you get upset...
when you want soju,
but there's rice wine instead?
You should drink soju in a seafood restaurant.
- Oh, that goes along with seafood. - It changes according to the menu.
(He was really upset.)
He just didn't like it.
He's right.
(He acts like a baby.)
- What else? - We were going home from a trip.
We went by train, but there wasn't any seat.
- You know the cafe on the train? - Yes.
We asked him if it's okay for Mom to sit...
since she has weak legs.
Then he suddenly walked out without saying anything.
Then when we arrived in Seoul,
he got on the bus alone and went home.
- Why? - Goodness.
He needs to tell us whether he's upset or not.
He was already upset.
We stopped by somewhere and got home after an hour and a half.
He wasn't inside the house.
He was on his cellphone outside.
It turned out he didn't have the key.
He couldn't get in.
- He was outside the house? - He could've called you.
- But he still didn't call you. - He didn't call us.
He must've been upset because he didn't have the key.
We didn't know he couldn't go in.
Why did you go home first?
I'm not sure.
- Not sure? - Not sure?
- Sir. - Yes?
It's only once in your life time.
- Let's be honest today. - Right.
- Why did you leave? - Why were you upset?
I can't stand...
hunger.
I wanted to get something to eat, but they said no.
He was upset for sure.
Sir.
(She understands him.)
Sir.
They didn't buy him anything.
Actually, when it comes to food...
It's understandable.
It's understandable when you're hungry.
- But people don't just leave. - You shouldn't underestimate it.
It's related to your life.
You shouldn't underestimate it.
Your daughter received a scholarship.
Were you too shy to compliment her?
What was it?
I must've been shy.
- Shy? - She's your own daughter.
- Do you love your daughter? - Of course.
Have you ever told your daughter that you love her?
Never.
Have you seen your daughters' eyes...
for more than three seconds lately?
I don't think I've ever had.
(Their relationship is worse than meeting a stranger.)
After listening to your story,
are you sure you have nothing against your daughters?
There's nothing.
(Come on.)
It's annoying.
(The riddle begins again.)
- Sir. - I have a question.
What does your family mean to you?
(What does family mean to him?)
What's family to you?
- We have to live together. - "Live together."
(He's extremely blunt.)
Are they precious to you?
Yes.
Why would you get upset at them if they're precious?
(Why does he keep getting upset?)
Because they're so precious?
(Let's guess what's on his mind.)
Are you trying to be cute?
(He's going beyond the limit.)
Do you think you get upset too often?
I tend to.
- He admits it. - "Tend to."
He admits pretty fast.
(He admits faster than the light.)
Do you think your husband gets upset too often?
One time, I forgot his birthday.
- That's a fair reason. - That'd make him upset.
I felt bad,
so I made seaweed soup for dinner.
I called him to come home early.
But he didn't come home.
(He didn't come home that night.)
How long does it last when he's upset?
For a month or two weeks.
(Two weeks is normal.)
Were you upset because your wife forgot about your birthday?
Of course I was,
but I had a plan with my friends,
so I couldn't go home.
- Then... - He was having a birthday party.
do you celebrate your wife's birthday every year?
Never.
- Why not? - Then why would you get upset?
Then why would you get upset? She forgot just once.
Don't you think your wife would be disappointed?
Probably.
Do you not care?
(He's very diverse.)
He sounds pretty selfish.
You could've...
asked your husband to discuss it over some liquor.
We had a bad experience with liquor.
He pretty much drinks every day.
- Liquor? - Yes.
You can't talk to a drunk.
He won't remember it.
- He gets drunk. - Yes.
One time,
he got hit by a car...
on the way home after drinking.
So his leg was fractured.
Goodness.
He was hospitalized for four months.
He started drinking again as soon as he got out.
- I saw him walking with a crutch. - Yes.
- He's still hurt. - He's not fully recovered.
I realized...
he's trying not to talk.
(He closes his lips tight.)
It looks like he's trying to keep his mouth shut.
I want him to give an excuse at least.
When I go home after drinking,
three women in the house...
nag at me.
- You think they're nagging? - Yes.
- I enjoy... - You enjoy talking.
talking outside the house.
But when I go home, I have nothing to say.
Is it fun to drink with your friends?
It's fun.
- Do you talk a lot too? - Yes.
- Really? - Yes.
- Ma'am. - Look at them.
- Why are you laughing? - He said he enjoys...
talking with his friends. Have you seen that before?
You know the face when someone's really happy?
That's what he looks like.
You must be disappointed.
He has never...
expressed himself to his family.
I barely see him smile twice a month.
- At home? - I see him smile...
when he's drinking,
but except when he watches a comedy show,
- when he talks to us at home, - When he talks to you?
We can see him laugh once a month at best.
- It must be hard for you. - Sir, is it that you don't know...
how to talk to your daughters...
as their dad?
I feel a little awkward...
- when I'm at home. - You don't even talk to your wife.
You don't know what to say or how to express yourself.
I think it's because I'm not good at expressing my emotions.
Unless you have been communicating with your children...
habitually since they're little children,
it's hard to reach out to them suddenly just because you want to.
It's hard because you don't know how to talk to them...
and feel awkward around them. I also have a child.
There are times when I don't know what to do.
I think it happened yesterday. I scolded my son yesterday.
"I never scolded you for getting low grades or anything else."
"These are what I hate the most. First, not greeting elders."
"Second, whining in front your grandparents."
I spanked him after the third one.
Then he said, "What's the fourth one?"
I thought, "The fourth one? What was it?"
I ended up making up a few things.
My son kept asking the next one while crying.
- I really didn't know what to do. - It's a dad joke.
- Exactly. - It sounds like a dad joke.
"You did only three things wrong."
There are many times when you don't know what to do while raising a kid.
I think it would be nice if you start to tell your daughters...
how you dated their mom or about your friends. It's not too late.
(Do you feel that uncomfortable around us?)
When does your mom seem the most distressed?
(Well...)
Daughters get emotional...
- when they think of their moms. - Is she sick?
(She becomes emotional as she thinks of her mom.)
- She saw what her mom went through. - It's not...
It's not like that. Three years ago,
my mom had a knee surgery.
I stayed at the hospital...
for a week to attend to my mom.
But when my dad came to see her, he stayed only for five minutes.
Then he said he would leave and just left.
Since I'm the oldest daughter, I was worried about my dad and sister.
I bought some side dishes from a store and put them in the fridge.
I made soybean paste soup for the first time in my life.
My mom must've been distressed to watch me doing that.
I'm sure she's disappointed by my dad when she thinks of that time.
Sir, don't you think that was too harsh?
But there were all women in the hospital.
How could I have slept there?
(That can't be an excuse.)
A lot of husbands do that.
Sir, weren't there any visitors who are men?
- Or the families... - When I came to see her,
there were no men in the room.
(Everyone is speechless.)
(He frustrates me.)
(Are you okay?)
(He frustrates me.)
Would you have slept there if you saw at least one man?
You stayed there only for five minutes.
That's ridiculous.
You should've stayed with your wife because she was sick.
Just because there were only women around you...
My eldest daughter was in 12th grade.
It was during her school break.
Since her daughter was with her, I thought she didn't need me...
A school break is an important period for a 12th grader.
- That's right. - You could've told her...
that you would attend to your wife,
so your daughter could take a rest. Haven't you thought about it?
I thought of doing it, but I couldn't sleep there as a man.
Besides, I had to go to work.
I understand that,
- What about the weekend? - but you could've stayed longer...
instead of leaving after only five minutes.
I was embarrassed.
(Of course you were.)
Why does it matter when your wife is sick?
(I want to press the button now.)
Didn't your wife attend to you when you had surgery?
- Yes, she did. - She should've left too, right?
- There were only women... - Right?
Ma'am, why did you stay there so long? It's so embarrassing.
You should've left after five minutes. How dare you?
- I know. - Sir, how would you have felt...
if your wife had left in five minutes?
I feel apologetic towards her.
(I'm apologetic towards her.)
- She's such a good daughter. - What are you the saddest about?
When my parents fight,
my mom always says, "I would rather get divorced..."
"than to live with him. Why should I live with him like this?"
After my mom had the surgery,
both of them started swearing at each other.
Sir, I guess you do speak when you want to swear at her.
(You must speak when you want to swear at her.)
That's the only time when she can hear your voice.
(Bitter)
All your family members love you and care about you.
Since you've heard them all, how do you feel now?
I think I should pay more attention and be nicer to them.
Please show them your affection.
You should also drink less.
Right. You should drink less.
I think that's the only way you can communicate with them.
(That way, you will have time to talk to them.)
- Drinking... - He won't answer.
- He won't try to drink less. - I like drinking so much.
I feel like drinking around 6pm.
Your family members would understand you if you show your affection...
sincerely even if you don't do that often.
For example, thanking them or apologizing to them.
There were times when you were sorry towards them, right?
- Of course. - You've felt grateful too, right?
- Yes. - But you didn't tell them.
How about you thank your wife right now?
Tell her how you feel and thank her.
Tell her yourself.
Sir, please look into her eyes while talking to her.
Thank you for making breakfast for me for the past 23 years...
and raising our children so well.
- Where are you looking at? - Tell her, not us.
Did Yeong Ja make you breakfast?
- Me? - For the past 23 years?
Sir, were you talking to me?
Look into your wife's eyes. Look at her face.
I'm sorry, and I'll be nice to you.
Please.
Gosh. He spoke so long when he was looking this way.
- Sir, please... - He was too shy to speak to her.
thank her sincerely.
Thank you for making me breakfast for the past 23 years...
and raising our children so well.
(Thank you, honey.)
- I don't know what to say. - She can't say anything.
Now, please tell your children.
- Say something to your daughters. - To your daughters.
I will... I will pay more attention...
to you two, and be nicer to you.
So please try to understand me. And I love you.
(I love you, my daughters.)
(They've never heard him telling them how he feels.)
Is this your first time hearing him say that?
Has he never told you that he loved you?
You should tell that to your wife as well.
Call her name, and tell her you love her.
Tell your wife and your younger daughter.
Mi Hwa, I love you.
(Mi Hwa, I love you.)
(Smiling brightly)
Please tell that to your younger daughter too.
Soo Bin, I love you.
That's great.
(He could've said that earlier.)
(We hope they will have countless conversations.)
Sung Mo, what do you think? Do you think it's a worry or not?
He doesn't communicate with his family.
I think this is a serious problem.
I think he should make an effort even if he's not good at it.
I think it's definitely a worry.
I really hope you'll resolve this problem.
The way I see it, if he makes a little effort,
- he could resolve the problem. - You don't think it's a worry.
I don't think it's a worry. I'll trust you.
Can I give you a hug after this? You and me?
In Korea, pointing your finger at others is considered rude.
Like this.
- I'm sorry. - Killagramz.
You're the head of the family.
If you just tell them how you feel, it will cheer them up.
You think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Time's up. - Stop pressing the button.
Please show us the result of "The Indifferent Man".
(The result)
The last digit.
(The last digit is seven.)
Is it over 100? Yes, it is.
How many people out of 200 people voted?
She got 137 votes.
Thank you for coming here.
As a result, "My Husband's Weird Desire" is this week's winner.
Congratulations.
The winner will receive a cash prize. Congratulations.
Until the day we are all worry-free.
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you! - Thank you!
("The Light" by Imfact)